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Weddings are filled with time-honored traditions that have existed for centuries. While plenty of modern couples put their own unique spin on their big day, when engaged duos embrace long-standing customs, the affair is infused with a sense of history, meaning, and familiarity, linking the pair to their family lineage, their culture, and those who tied the knot before them. It’s also said that following certain wedding traditions brings eternal happiness and good fortune to the newlyweds, which is the ultimate goal of any wedding celebration.
While American nuptials typically adopt customs, such as the first dance and bouquet toss, countries around the world also have their own set of wedding-related rituals. And many of them have a specific purpose with symbolic significance. Take, for instance, nuptials in Guatemala, which often involve the mother of the groom breaking a white ceramic bell to bring prosperity to the newlyweds. Or, consider brides and grooms in the Philippines who release a pair of white doves after they wed, signifying a harmonious life.
If you’re part of a certain culture or heritage, you don’t have to be living in that country or throwing your wedding there to observe these traditions; if you align with a ritual that’s part of your background, you can certainly implement it into your special day.
Whether you want to read up on your culture or you’re simply curious how other cultures celebrate their marriage, here are 50 of the most fascinating wedding traditions around the world.
Norway: Wearing a Crown to Deflect Evil Spirits
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One wedding tradition that Norwegian brides follow is sporting a crown to ward off evil spirits. The tiara in question is usually an ornate diadem made of silver and gold that is decorated with small charms. Whenever the bride moves, the charms create a tinkling sound that is supposed to scare off the spirits.
Mexico: Draping a Lasso Around the Couple's Shoulders
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During a Mexican wedding ceremony, when the pair exchanges vows, "el lazo," or lasso (often a string of rope) is draped around their shoulders in the shape of a figure eight. Not only does "el lazo" represent the union of the couple, but its shape also resembles the infinity sign, which signifies how long they're hoping the marriage will last.
Armenia: Balancing Bread on the Couple's Shoulders
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With this ritual, when a newly married Armenian couple enters their wedding reception—typically at the groom's house—they break a plate for good luck. Then, the mother of the groom gives them lavash flatbread and honey. They eat spoonfuls of the honey to symbolize happiness, and they balance the bread on their shoulders to counteract evil spirits.
Congo: Concealing a Smile on the Wedding Day
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While most soon-to-be spouses brim with excitement leading up to and on their big day, Congolese couples have to keep their happiness in check. Throughout the entirety of their wedding day, from the ceremony to the reception, the two are not allowed to crack a smile, as grinning is evidence that they aren't serious about marriage.
China: Shooting the Bride With a Bow and Arrow
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In China, a prospective husband shoots his bride with a bow and (head-less) arrow several times. After collecting the arrows, he breaks each of them during the ceremony to ensure their love lasts forever.
China: Carrying the Bride
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A Chinese bride's family hires a "good luck" woman to take care of the soon-to-be Mrs. when she travels from her home to her groom's in an elaborately decorated sedan chair. The bride also has attendants shield her with parasols and toss rice at the chair to grant health and prosperity.
Ethiopia: Hosting the Melse
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On the day after an Ethiopian duo's wedding, the bride's family usually hosts the Melse, which only close friends and family attend. For the event, the bride and groom wear habesha outfits with a Kaba, an Ethiopian embroidered cape, and head jewelry.
France: Cutting a Heart into a White Sheet
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In contemporary French ceremonies, the newlyweds often walk through a cut-out heart that's carved into a white sheet. This ritual has evolved from a tradition in small French villages, in which children obstructed the bride's path down the aisle with white ribbons, which forced her to cross through them. The purpose was to represent the bride overcoming any challenges that might come her way in her marriage.
Hawaii: Blowing the Pū
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Blowing the pū (a conch shell horn) has been a part of Hawaiian culture since ancient times. Hawaiian weddings also embrace this concept, with the officiant either sounding the horn at the start of the ceremony or after the newlyweds share their first kiss.
Greece: Shaving the Groom
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Taking the term "groomsman" literally, a Greek groom's best man, or "koumparos," becomes his barber on his wedding day. Before the groom changes into his ceremony attire, his pal pulls out a razor and shaves the man of honor's face to demonstrate the trust between them.
Guatemala: Breaking a Bell
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When Guatemalan newlyweds arrive at the reception, it's a tradition that the mother of the groom breaks a white ceramic bell filled with grains, such as rice and flour, to bring prosperity to the couple.
Brazil: Incorporating Natural Elements
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Wedding ceremonies in Brazil conventionally incorporate rituals that revolve around the natural elements of sand, water, or fire—each enhances the couple's future marriage in some way. To enact this tradition, couples might blend two different containers of sand into the same vessel, signifying their joint union.
Japan: Wearing a White Tsunokakushi
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On her wedding day, a Japanese bride celebrating a traditional Shinto ceremony wears white from head to toe, including makeup, a kimono, and a hood, called a "tsunokakushi." White denotes her maiden status, and the hood hides the so-called "horns of jealousy" she may feel toward her mother-in-law.
Libya: Sporting a Harisa
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While some Libyan brides wear traditional wedding dresses on their big day, many don a harisa, a garment made of white silk that's embroidered in silver and gold. The woman of the hour often pairs the outfit with gold jewelry and a matching veil.
Lebanon: Playing Music and Dancing Before the Ceremony
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In Lebanon, the wedding celebration, known as the Zaffe, gets off to a rowdy start at both the bride's and groom's homes, thanks to music, belly dancing, and shouting from the couple's friends and family and occasionally professional dancers and musicians. Eventually, everyone ends up at the bride's house, where guests shower the couple with blessings and flower petals once they leave for the ceremony.
Germany: Shattering Porcelain
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Guests at German weddings traditionally throw porcelain dishes on the ground to ward off any evil spirits. Afterward, the couple cleans up the broken pieces, learning the lesson of "Polterabend," which asserts that as long as the two work together, they can face any challenge.
Norway: Serving Kransekake
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It's typical at Norwegian weddings to serve a towering cake, called a "kransekake." This special dessert has rings of iced almond cake that forms a cone shape with a wine bottle placed in the hollow middle.
Czech Republic: Placing a Baby on the Couple's Bed
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Before a Czech couple ties the knot, an infant is placed on their bed to enhance their fertility. Once they wed, guests shower them with rice, peas, or lentils to further promote fertility.
Nigeria: Cracking Kola Nuts
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In Nigeria, many tribes signal the start of the traditional event by breaking the kola nut. After blessing the bitter fruit, they crack the symbolic food into pieces—the more pieces that are broken off, the more prosperity the host and guests will receive.
Russia: Sharing Karavay
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Newly married Russian couples share a wedding sweetbread, called "karavay." The treat is decorated with wheat for prosperity and interlocking rings for faithfulness. Whoever takes the biggest bite without using their hands is considered the head of the family.
India: Stealing the Groom's Shoes
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On the day of the wedding, in a lighthearted ritual, called "Joota Chupai," an Indian bride's sisters and female cousins hide the groom's shoes. To safely return them to the groom, the bride's female relatives often negotiate with him. This tradition brings laughter and blessings to the couple.
China: Playing Wedding Door Games
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In this humorous, playful tradition, Chinese bridesmaids challenge the groom (and sometimes his groomsmen) on the morning of the wedding day by putting him through a series of tests, which are called "wedding door games," to prove that he's worthy of the bride. Afterward, he must pay each one with envelopes of money.
Niger: Doing the Camel Dance
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In the West African country of Niger, the reception is marked by a camel dance. As the humpback animal grooves the the beat of a drum in the desert, the wedding guests gather around to watch and dance along.
Philippines: Releasing White Doves
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After tying the knot, brides and grooms in the Philippines release a pair of white doves—one male and one female—into the air. The birds are said to represent a harmonious life for the newly married couple.
Fiji: Presenting a Whale's Tooth
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In Fiji, when a man asks a woman's father for her hand in marriage, he must present his future father-in-law with a whale's tooth. This item is supposed to impart compassion and thoughtfulness to the bride's family.
Mexico: Exchanging Consent
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Another tradition in Mexican weddings involves the couple exchanging consent. After the pair has the customary mass, the pastor performs the Exchange of Consent, which is when the two promise to love each other for the rest of their lives—before the eyes of God and the rest of the congregation.
Israel: Adopting the Bedeken
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For Ashkenazi couples in Israel, after the groom's friends and family dance him into the room where the bride is waiting (usually seated beside her mother and future mother-in-law), the groom lifts the bride's veil over her face, otherwise known as the bedeken (which is a Yididsh term that means "veiling ceremony"). The groom then recites a blessing, and the father of the bride or other loved ones in her life may also chime in.
Cuba: Pinning Money to the Bride's Dress
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Some variation of the money dance is a common wedding tradition across many cultures. In Cuba, every man who dances with the bride must pin money to her dress to help the couple pay for their wedding and honeymoon.
Russia: Taking Photos at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier
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As a sign of respect, pairs in Moscow, Russia, often take wedding photos at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier near the Kremlin. Then, they decorate the area with flowers.
Turkey: Hanging a Flag
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On the day of a Turkish groom's wedding, his friends pay a visit to his home to plant the country's flag in the ground. Depending on the area, they might also scatter objects, like fruit, vegetables, and mirrors, around the flagpole, as a sign that the wedding ceremony has begun.
Venezuela: Departing Before the Reception Ends
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Before the wedding reception comes to a close, it's good luck for Venezuelan newlyweds to sneak away—without getting caught. Whoever realizes that the two have left is also said to receive good fortune.
Wales: Adding Myrtle to the Bridal Bouquet
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Welsh brides include myrtle in their bouquets as a symbol of love, and they also give a piece of the herb to each of their bridesmaids. After the wedding, the bridesmaids are supposed to plant the myrtle cutting; if it blooms, she'll be the next bride.
Mongolia: Finding a Chicken's Liver
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A Mongolian couple hoping to set a wedding date must first kill a baby chicken and cut it apart, holding the knife together, to find a healthy liver. They keep at it until they're successful.
China: Wearing Three Dresses
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In China, brides don three outfit changes: They typically walk down the aisle in a slim-fitting, embroidered dress (a qipao or cheongsam) before putting on a more decked-out, Western-inspired gown for the reception and a cocktail dress for the end of the evening.
Russia: Proving the Groom's Worth
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According to Russian wedding custom, a groom must go to the bride's parents' home on the morning of the wedding to prove his worth, either by paying a "ransom" for his future wife, showering the family with gifts, or dancing and singing until the family has had enough.
Ireland: Dancing on One Foot
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In Ireland, when the bride and groom are dancing during the wedding reception, the bride must keep at least one foot on the floor at all times. According to Irish folklore, if the bride fails to do so, evil fairies will come and sweep her away.
India: Receiving Henna Designs
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Right before the wedding, it's common for Indian women to gather their closest female friends and family members for the mehndi party, when their skin is intricately painted with mehndi, a type of paint made from henna.
French Polynesia: Stepping on Relatives
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On the Marquesas Islands of French Polynesia, once the wedding is over, the relatives of the bride lay face down on the ground beside one another, while the bride and groom walk over them like a human rug.
China: Crying Before the Wedding
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Brides of the Tujia people in China cry for one hour every day starting one month before they tie the knot. Once they reach the 10-day mark, the mother of the bride joins in, and another 10 days after that, her grandmother starts the waterworks. By the end of the month, every female in the family is crying alongside the bride. The tradition is believed to be an expression of joy, as the women weep in different tones, reminiscent of a song.
Germany: Sawing a Log
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After getting married, couples in Germany receive a large log and a saw. They're supposed to saw the log in half as a team, which foreshadows their ability to overcome obstacles in their marriage through collaboration.
Peru: Participating in the Cake Pull
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Peruvian wedding cakes typically showcase ribbons, which are attached to charms—one of which is a fake wedding ring. During the reception, all of the single women in attendance participate in the "cake pull" by grabbing a ribbon. Whoever pulls out the fake bauble, per tradition, will be the next to get married.
Romania: Hiding the Bride
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In Romania, before the wedding, guests work together to playfully "abduct" the bride, whisking her away to an undisclosed location and demanding a "ransom" from the groom. Typical requests? A few bottles of alcohol or a performance in front of the entire wedding party.
Scotland: Covering the Bride and Groom
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The day before a Scottish bride and groom's wedding ceremony, their friends capture them and cover them in any substance, from molasses and ash to flour and feathers, before parading them around town. The ritual stems from the practice of trying to combat evil spirits.
Sweden: Stealing Kisses
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In Sweden, whenever the bride leaves the table, all of the ladies at the reception are welcome to steal a kiss from the groom. And vice versa: Whenever the groom leaves the room, the men are free to plant a peck on the bride.
Wales: Carving Lovespoons
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Back in the day, when a Welshman fell in love and was ready to commit to marriage, he carved spoons from wood, called "lovespoons," and gave them to his beloved. He often decorated them with keys (demonstrating the key to his heart) and beads (symbolizing the number of children he was hoping for).
India: Marrying a Tree First
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Hindu brides who were born during the astrological period when Mars and Saturn were both under the seventh house are supposedly cursed with an early widowhood, according to Indian custom. To break this evil spell, these brides have to marry a tree first before having it cut down.
South Korea: Including the Falaka Ceremony
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As part of the "Falaka" ceremony in South Korea, the groom's friends and family hold him down as they beat the bottom of his feet with a stick or dried fish. In between beatings, they ask him trivia questions to strengthen his memory (and his feet).
Italy: Surprising the Bride With La Serenata
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The night before the wedding, an Italian groom traditionally throws a surprise party outside his bride-to-be's window. "La serenata" begins with the groom, backed by musicians, serenading his fiancée, before it turns into a full-blown bash, complete with a lavish buffet and all of the couple's friends and family.
Spain: Chopping the Tie
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At some Spanish weddings, the groom's friends will chop up his tie with scissors and sell the pieces to guests to raise money for the newlyweds. The same practice is sometimes applied to the bride's garter, as well.
Canada: Throwing Money at the Couple
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At French-Canadian ceremonies, the couple's older, unmarried siblings traditionally perform a money dance. While wearing brightly colored socks, they dance and throw money at the couple. The bills are eventually collected and presented to the newlyweds.